- Home
- Cases
- Get Involved
- Community
- Tools
- Info
-
Account
- NOT A MEMBER
Become a Member! - LOGIN
- NOT A MEMBER
- Search Cases

Sep 27, 2016
Jan 12, 2024
Diane
Van Reeth
65
35
67 inches
140 lbs
White / Caucasian
Female
On the morning of August 10, 1995, 35-year-old Diane Van Reeth left her home in Tucson, Arizona, intending to go to her job as a research coordinator at Tucson Electric Power. She was never seen or heard from again. Two days after she was last seen, her Ford Aerostar minivan was found abandoned in the 2800 block of east Fort Lowell Road. The keys were still inside the vehicle, but there were no signs of a struggle or any other evidence to suggest what might have happened to her. Authorities initially found no indication of foul play at the scene where the van was discovered. The investigation into Diane's disappearance soon focused on her estranged husband, who was publicly known as Don Stecchi. Diane was in the process of divorcing him and was seeking custody of their two sons. Investigators discovered that "Don Stecchi" was an alias for John Joseph Kalhauser, a man with a violent criminal past. He was wanted in Massachusetts for aggravated assault and attempted murder from a 1979 incident and had a previous conviction for manslaughter when he was a teenager. It is unclear if Diane was aware of her husband's true identity or his history. Shortly after Diane vanished, Kalhauser was extradited to Massachusetts to face the outstanding charges, for which he was sentenced to 29 years in prison. Following Kalhauser's extradition, authorities classified Diane's case as a probable homicide. In 1999, Kalhauser pleaded no contest to the second-degree murder of his wife and received an additional 20-year sentence to be served concurrently with his time in Massachusetts. Despite the conviction, Diane's body has never been found. The case took another turn when investigators connected Kalhauser to another woman's death. When he was arrested in connection with Diane's disappearance, a photograph of a young woman was found in his wallet. In 2015, that woman was identified as Brenda Gerow, who had been missing since 1980 and whose unidentified body had been found in Pima County in 1981. While Kalhauser was a person of interest in Gerow's murder, the central mystery in Diane's case remains the location of her remains, leaving her loved ones without a final resolution. Her two children were ultimately adopted and raised by her cousin.
Aug 10, 1995
Tucson
Arizona
Pima County
No
25239
Tucson Police Department
Tucson
Arizona
Pima County
85701
Maria Cheek
Detective
270 South Stone Avenue, Arizona
5207914444
Local
Law Enforcement
9508100532
Tucson Police Department
Brown
Brown
Brown
No
08/05/2026
Unlock the full case narrative for Diane Van Reeth, all available source links, additional videos, and member discussions.
Unlock Full Case Access — $3.97/monthView the complete collection of available reporting and reference links for this case.
View All Case Sources — $3.97/month
Read full forum posts and contribute to this case discussion.
Unlock forum access — $3.97/month