I wrestle with these thoughts daily. I wonder if only. I wonder if only that day if I had just called the police to check on her. If only that day... but It is too late for that.
I can attest that there were some things that all of us were aware of, the arguing, the disputes, but I don't think we'd ever thought it would come down to this. That I'd be sitting here writing these words. Speaking these words. Advocating for her. I still can't wrap my head around it.
I knew that she and him had difficulties. I knew she wanted to sell the house to him and give him half of the money back. I know that he wanted to remain in the home because it was 1. his childhood home, 2. his grandparents home and 3. he felt entitled to it. I also know that over time, the disagreements and him constantly failing to help with the mortgage, bills, and other responsibilities led to her eventually moving out to her own place. I can also attest that his father did not want him to get the house and that's the reason she owned the home.
She was a kind soul and gave him many chances to buy the house, but every time he was supposed to come up with the money, he'd have some excuse.
His last excuse was that his boss (a millionaire) was coming from South Carolina and was looking to buy a boat. He (the alleged boss) was going to buy the house for Daniel.
I recall telling her (Debra), "Do you hear how that sounds? It sounds off. It sounds suspicious. I think he's lying to you and made up a ludicrous story.." . I told her "Things just aren't adding up. Like, why would a millionaire want to buy a little house ? And why is he coming all the way from SC just to buy a boat and a little house?"
I didn't fall for the story just like I didn't fall for all his excuses.
I wish to goodness, I was not sitting here today, having to tell her story like this.
I wish to goodness, I didn't have to ache in my heart with the loss of her.
But, in her honor, I advocate for her. I advocate against her killer. I will always stand up to that man and never let him forget what he did to us.