Lois A. Ham, 80, and her husband John were found dead from gunshot wounds in their Fargo home on January 26, 2019. Authorities described the deaths as a murder-suicide and said the incident appeared isolated, with no suspects being sought. Neighbors reported both spouses had been very ill before their deaths.

Born in Breckenridge, Minnesota, Lois grew up on a nearby farm and met John at North Dakota State College of Science. They married in 1961, raised four children, and were active in their church and community. Lois enjoyed gardening, cooking, and baking, and took particular delight in family gatherings and her grandchildren.

The couple’s joint funeral reflected the life they built together. If anyone knew Lois or the Hams and has details about their final months, please share information that might help others understand what happened.